Today ,i had word with my friend Priyanka , We had started the conversation with some apologizing statement regarding with yesterday telecall not picked up by me later we switched to current ongoing event of her life is her two months pregnancy we had several talk regarding what to do and what not do during pregnancy which diet we should follow along with some worth reading magazine related to pregnancy .
I could not realize how our conversation swing to by gone time , as she said previously you used to talk beyond relation, beyond line of bad or good perceiving you just talk irrespective what some one will consider it as . She was only talking to me in terms of both of us relation ship . She stated she felt like i talk a guarded way , where i take an account on my words .action its like you feel like being judged for my words .I felt she is going right way actually i stared doing the guarded job,where i used attentively watch my words and action in other way around i used feel like urge to what to say and what not say to whom or to whom not ...
Our conversation was going on she was stating all the previous ,like how i used to be in past a kind of all good things . similarly she stated that i am not if you do guarded talk i will judge you or its not good but she stated the reason behind this and as per statement it was because pf my childhood event it was because of my tenure age where i got a series of misbehave with people to whom i was staying with who were entitled to guard me not to raise finger on me . She went on extreme bad to state all those people behavior . She was right probably i was so over with people behavior the way they judge . On the same time she asked me the reason for my changed behavior (specially she emphasized did she done any thing wrong to her )towards here along with making a statement of that You kept me in your cart where all 99 % people treat you badly. I accepted the fact and same i mean yes I kept her in same cart , after explaining thing about her that made me feel bad about her or figured out that she also judge ,was the behavior of my father , what he has done , not done what he should done... etc.
If i wanted i would not have given her any reason and can shift the talk ,but i stated the reason for moving apart specially for some selective talk. later we both talked and clear the things..
Its not that i am going to tell each and every things but a clearance in it has washed out all the hidden negative background in our present conversation and made the way for further talk also.
that why i made to think the above subjective line of this write is that - '' CLARITY IN TALK MAKE THINGS CLEAR- IRRESPECTIVE OF POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE
Speak to your mind ~~~ IT WILL BE RELAXING :))
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